If you’re like most parents, we often feel like our kids are growing up too fast, and that’s perfectly normal. And while we want our  little ones to stay babies forever sometimes, growing up is inevitable. As a parent, the best thing we can do is raise children and equip them with the skills they need in order to become independent and capable adults.

Instilling independence in children from an early age can help them become confident and more self-sufficient, and have a positive head start on the road to success.

Teach responsibility

An essential component of developing independence is learning about responsibility. You can help instill a sense of responsibility in children by assigning them simple chores, such as making their bed, or organizing their books and toys. Kids are capable of learning how to be responsible, so be sure to give them tasks that are age-appropriate. For example, most three-year-olds can help clean up their rooms or put their clothes away in dresser drawers.

Whether you have your child help out with small or big tasks at home, giving children opportunities to develop a sense of increased independence and responsibility will help to prepare them for the future, both in school and beyond.

Encourage kids to do things for themselves

Rather than doing everything for your children, it’s important to let them do some things independently whenever possible. For example, you can have five-year-olds brush their own teeth or get dressed by themselves, when time allows. They may need some guidance with these types of tasks from you from time to time, but this is all an important part of  learning how to take care of themselves as they get older.

Give them choices

Another helpful approach when helping kids develop independence is giving them opportunities to make their own choices, when appropriate. For example, instead of deciding which clothes preschoolers should wear, let them pick out their outfit for the day. Allowing kids to make decisions about simple things will help to prepare them for life’s bigger choices down the road.

Additionally, even if you don’t agree with what they choose, it’s still important to allow children to express themselves, as it will help build their confidence and independence. These opportunities also teach children about making good choices.

Allow independent playtime

It’s important not to hover over children every second of the day, even though stepping back may feel difficult sometimes. Try allowing your little one to enjoy independent playtime occasionally. Let kids play by themselves without telling them what to do or how to play. Only provide supervision from a distance to ensure that your child is playing safely and not near any potential hazards. In addition to fostering independence, this is also an excellent way for children to exercise their growing imaginations and creativity.

Let children think for themselves

In addition to independent playtime, free thinking should be encouraged as well. For instance, rather than telling children everything you know about the world, try asking open-ended questions, like, “What do you think?” This encourages kids to rely on their own observations and judgment as they develop independent thinking skills.

Teach independent problem solving

Solving problems on their own is another crucial skill that all kids need to learn. So instead of immediately coming to their rescue whenever they have a problem or can’t figure something out, help children explore different solutions. Encourage them to keep trying until they find the answer. Not only does this help them learn independent thinking skills. It also helps boost their confidence and self-efficacy.

Let them fail

Watching kids experience disappointment can be heartbreaking for parents. However, developing independence can’t happen without experiencing some amount of failure. Kids need to understand that mistakes and failure are part of life. What matters most is that they learn from their mistakes and keep trying new things.

Raising independent kids may seem easier said than done. However, with time and patience,  kids can learn how to manage an array of day-to-day tasks on their own without having to ask for help or feel dependent on others.

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